Many U.S. teachers face overwhelming workloads, overcrowded classrooms, and low pay. As the holidays approach, parents often seek meaningful ways to thank teachers for their hard work and dedication.
USA TODAY asked teachers what gifts they would appreciate most, and their answers reflect a preference for thoughtfulness over material value. Most teachers suggested skipping the usual mugs and opting for gifts that are more meaningful and affordable, such as books for the classroom or offering to volunteer at school. Teachers also emphasized the importance of recognizing support staff in holiday gift-giving.
Tiffany Moyer-Washington, a public high school teacher in Hartford, Connecticut, shared that one of her most cherished gifts was the sequel to a book she was teaching. If a teacher doesn’t have a wish list, consider gifting popular or notable children’s books to help build the classroom library. Maralee McKee, founder of The Etiquette School of America, recommends such books as a wonderful addition to a teacher’s resources.
Moyer-Washington also mentioned that teaching has become especially challenging due to larger class sizes, which increased from 20 to 28 students. A gift card for dinner or an experience outside of work, like a relaxing activity, would be most appreciated this year, she said. Local businesses that provide lunch delivery are another thoughtful gift, especially since teachers often have limited time for breaks. Jessica Saum, a special education teacher in Cabot, Arkansas, shared that gift certificates for food or experiences are some of the most memorable gifts for teachers.
McKee also suggested experiences, like tickets to local attractions or events, as excellent gift options. “Things like two tickets to a local museum or play, or even a movie night with a concession stand gift card, create lasting memories that teachers will always associate with your family,” she explained.
In addition to physical gifts, teachers value heartfelt gestures such as homemade items or thoughtful notes. Adriane Bradley-Gray, dean of students at Suffolk Public Schools in Virginia, recalled a memorable moment when a student’s family decorated their car with a note of appreciation. “It brought me to tears because it was such validation,” she said. After two decades in education, she emphasized that educators often yearn for recognition, and simple expressions of gratitude can mean more than expensive gifts.
Lopez, a teacher from Los Angeles Unified School District, fondly remembers receiving a soccer-themed pencil holder from a student’s trip to Mexico, which aligned with her personal interests. She also cherishes the notes and cards of appreciation from students displayed on the wall near her desk. McKee recommends involving children in creating these heartfelt notes. “Have your child write a thank-you note or draw pictures to include in a holiday card,” she suggested.
Support staff, like paraprofessionals in special education classrooms, also appreciate these gestures, Saum added. It’s important to remember that they are teaching partners who play a vital role in the classroom.
For many teachers, the greatest gift is positive change within their schools and communities. Diane Castro, a bilingual elementary teacher in Chicago, expressed that “housing for our students, healthy meals, a happy learning environment, and clean, green schools” top her holiday wish list. Parents can make a difference by preparing their children for the day ahead, like teaching them to zip up their coats or use tissues, helping to ease teachers’ workloads.
Bradley-Gray noted that the best gift for teachers is often intangible. “Respect, autonomy, and a productive ear” from parents can go a long way in fostering a positive educational experience. Teachers, she said, appreciate when parents engage with them, heed their advice, and support their efforts in the classroom. In a challenging economy, these thoughtful, supportive actions can be just as valuable as any material gift.